Talk:Friends/@comment-5410269-20120815001952

Looking for some feedback. I just like to visit parks and get party hats. I can't trade more gems because I already have regular gem trades set up. I'm really not looking to take gems I can't return, so I try to make my intentions clear when I add people. I don't add anyone who says "gem for gem" or "daily player" (that seems to imply a daily gem trade maybe) - I stick to people who just say "add me" or "add for party hats or visiting" or "I'm awesome" or whatever. I also state in my gamecenter status that I can't trade any more gems. And when I send the friend request I always mention that I can't trade gems.

But I do still get people who end up sending me gems. And some of them I already know don't want gems in return, but it's hard to tell with the others. Can't tell if they are trying to set up a daily trade or just haven't found a gem circle and figure they might as well give their dailies anyway. I mean, I absolutely appreciate gems, but I just wanted to ask if you guys think there's anything else I can do to make sure I'm not misleading people when I add them. I read the message that comes with friend requests, but do others? Should I do something differently? I don't want to reply to posts asking what exactly they're looking for if they weren't specific because I check here all the time and it'd be obnoxious. Too bad I can't edit this page - might be useful to add advice about being specific about what you're looking for - gems or just park visitors and party hats.

Sorry for the tl;dr lol

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